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沙特女孩搭讪我们
河畔听雨
2026年10月21日
(原文发表于2026年10月17日)
 
在利雅得,来沙特读博的云南导游小合带领我们去国王大厦参观。大厦造型远看就像一张戴着头巾的国王脸,极有特色。小合反复叮嘱我们,你们要注意安全,特别不能随意跟沙特的女性谈话,恐怕会惹来麻烦。他没上楼,就在外面等我们。我跟老刘乘电梯到大厦顶层,放眼望去,笔直的公路,水一样流动的车流,一排排油绿的椰子树,色整齐划一的城市建筑,整个利雅得尽收眼底,独特的沙漠风光。
 
       在一个柜台前,有个中国人主动跟我们搭话。那个小伙子是个江苏人,来利雅得参加工程项目已经两年多了。我问他,你还习惯这里的生活吗?他说,怎么讲呢,待遇各方面还不错,工资高,但是没有娱乐活动,没有卡拉ok,没有电影院,也不卖酒,晚上也没地方去喝酒,天气太热了,周末休息也就在大商场里面逛来逛去,闷得慌。我们想想也是,一个大男人到这边,什么娱乐活动也没有,太郁闷了。那时萨勒曼王储还未当政,等于沙特社会还没有改革开放,整个风气是保守的。
国王大厦里边分两大块区域,三楼以下是女性购物区,再往上的楼层统统归男性消费。我看到三楼入口大圆柱周边,有不少休闲椅子,好多很精干的沙特小伙子,就围坐在那儿。如果看到有女孩从电梯出来,经过他们跟前时就主动打口哨眨眼睛。也就是在主动示爱,胆大的女孩子也会摇摇头回应。这让我想起我们半大小子的时候,也是一样的,见女孩子路过身旁,也会有同样的举动。用句不恰当的词汇,就是有点“调戏”的意思吧。
 
       我跟老刘乘电梯往下走的时候,发现大厦的电梯里面特别大,至少是常规的三四倍,光线幽暗,喷了好多香水,顶部好多特别小霓虹灯,所谓满天星吧,整个空间营造出了一种暧昧的气氛。我们进电梯时,同时进来了三四个沙特女孩,大概十八九岁左右,每个人都是一袭黑纱袍,脸上也是遮得严严实实,只露出眼睛,跟其它地方不同的是面部的那一块网格遮挡布可以移动翻起来的。几个女孩看到我们俩,突然就把遮脸布往上翻起来,整个脸就露了出来,都很漂亮,典型的阿拉伯人,隆鼻大眼,长长的睫毛看得清清楚楚。在电梯幽暗的光线下,感觉个个就像翩翩黑色仙子。忽然有个女孩主动冲我打招呼,嘿,你们是中国人?我说是。她又问,你们来沙特旅游吗?我说公干。我也问道,你们几个去过中国吗?女孩们笑笑,争着答:俩,俩(没有)。我们说,有机会你们去中国吧,非常好,跟这里太不一样了。几个女孩不断点头,咯咯地笑了起来。没聊够几句电梯就到楼门口了,我心想这电梯是不是故意提了速度。电梯门即将打开的一瞬间,那几个女孩马上把脸上的那块布又放了下来。除了两只大眼睛之外,你又什么都看不见了。有个女孩挥挥手,然后一下子就都严肃地快步走了。
 
       见了导游小合,我说刚才我们跟几个沙特女孩说话了。小合说不可能的吧,怎么会呢?我说这是真的,他不相信。老刘赶紧补充说,我作证刚才确实说了话,我们科长跟他们还聊了不少呢,我还帮腔说了几句呢。小合有点惊愕,忽然说:“那是她们看你俩老头就讲话了。”我们听了,脸拉长了。心想这什么意思啊?那时候我们都很年轻啊,什么叫老头?人家沙特女孩内心深处,恐怕都有对外交流的需要呢,天天紧箍咒,严管约束,只要是正常人都会烦,越想突破那个管束呢!
The Dim Elevator: A Saudi Girl Strikes Up a Conversation with the Two of Us

    In Riyadh, Xiao He,  a tour guide from Yunnan who had come to Saudi Arabia to pursue a PhD, led us to visit the Kingdom Centre. Seen from a distance, the tower's shape resembled a king's face wearing a headscarf—extremely distinctive. Xiao He repeatedly warned us, "You need to be careful about safety. In particular, do not casually talk to Saudi women—it could get you into trouble." He didn't go upstairs and waited outside for us. Lao Liu and I took the elevator to the top floor of the tower. Looking out, we took in the straight highways, the traffic flowing like water, rows of lush green palm trees, and the neatly uniform city buildings—all of Riyadh spread out before our eyes, a unique desert scene.

      At a counter, a Chinese man struck up a conversation with us on his own initiative. The young man was from Jiangsu and had been in Riyadh working on an engineering project for more than two years. I asked him, "Are you used to life here?" He said, "How should I put it? The pay and benefits are pretty good—the salary is high—but there's no entertainment, no karaoke, no cinemas, and they don't sell alcohol. There's nowhere to go drinking at night either. The weather is too hot. On weekends, all I do is wander around the big shopping malls. It's stifling." We thought about it and realized he was right. A grown man coming here, with no entertainment at all—it was really depressing. At that time, Crown Prince Salman had not yet come to power, which meant Saudi society had not yet opened up and reformed; the overall atmosphere was conservative.

     The interior of the Kingdom Centre was divided into two major areas: below the third floor was the women's shopping area, and all floors above belonged to men's consumption. I saw that around the large cylindrical pillar at the entrance to the third floor, there were quite a few leisure chairs, and many very sharp-looking young Saudi men were sitting around there. If they saw a girl come out of the elevator and pass in front of them, they would whistle and wink at her—that is, openly express romantic interest. Bold girls would also shake their heads in response. This reminded me of when we were half-grown lads—it was just the same. When we saw a girl pass by, we'd do the same things. To use an inappropriate term, it was a bit like "flirting."

     When Lao Liu and I took the elevator down, we discovered that the elevator inside the tower was especially large—at least three or four times the usual size. The light was dim, a lot of perfume had been sprayed, and there were many tiny neon lights on the ceiling—a so-called "starry sky." The whole space created an ambiguous atmosphere. When we entered the elevator, three or four Saudi girls, about eighteen or nineteen years old, entered at the same time. Each was in a black abaya, and their faces were completely covered, with only their eyes showing. What was different from other places was that the mesh covering over the face area could be moved and lifted up. When the girls saw the two of us, they suddenly lifted the face coverings upward, revealing their entire faces. They were all very beautiful—typically Arab, with high noses, big eyes, and long eyelashes that could be seen clearly. In the dim elevator light, each seemed like a graceful black fairy. Suddenly one girl took the initiative to greet me: "Hey, are you Chinese?" I said yes. She asked again, "Are you in Saudi Arabia for tourism?" I said for official business. I also asked, "Have any of you been to China?" The girls laughed and rushed to answer: "Lā, lā" (no). We said, "If you get the chance, go to China. It's very nice—very different from here." The girls kept nodding and giggling. Before we had chatted for more than a few sentences, the elevator reached the ground floor. I thought to myself, did the elevator deliberately speed up? At the instant before the elevator doors were about to open, the girls immediately lowered the cloth over their faces again. Except for two big eyes, you could see nothing else. One girl waved, and then all at once they became serious and walked away quickly.

        When we saw the guide Xiao He, I said we had just spoken with a few Saudi girls. Xiao He said, "Impossible, how could that be?" I said it was true, but he didn't believe it. Lao Liu quickly added, "I can testify that we really did talk just now. Our section chief even chatted with them quite a bit, and I chimed in with a few words too." Xiao He was a little stunned, then suddenly said, "That's because they saw you two are old men, so they spoke." When we heard that, our faces fell. What did that mean? At that time we were both still young. What did he mean, old men? In the depths of those Saudi girls' hearts, perhaps all of them had a need to communicate with the outside world. Under daily restraints and strict controls, anyone normal would get annoyed—the more they were controlled, the more they wanted to break through those restrictions!
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